Online dating should be taken seriously
September 29, 2016
Should I swipe left or right? Should I slide into their DMs?
On social media, it’s normal for the average person to want to pursue a relationship through the digital world. Apps like SnapChat and Tinder have become the gateway for online dating.
According to Bustle, an online lifestyle blog, online dating is the second most popular way to meet someone new. Online dating can be a fun and convenient way to find someone. When feelings spark and butterflies flutter, many couples choose to further their relationship outside of the social media world and it can only go North or South from there.
It’s important to do your homework on someone before actually risking it and meeting them in person. Usually, this is done by browsing and stalking their social media profiles until you’re confident they’re not an ax murderer. Otherwise, you could lead to mis-identity, which is often known as “catfishing.” Being catfished is not fun when you actually thought there was potential.
Referencing Pew Research Center, online dating has increased in adults under the age of 25 and adults in their late 50s and 60s. With technology taking over, the process of online dating is completely normal. From those surveyed on Bustle, 22% have actually confessed to meeting their partner online. Don’t be ashamed from your experience, embrace it.
The digital world can surprise you. When you finally meet the one, you can thank Instagram or Tinder, because without the internet — would you ever know if he/she was standing right next to you?
Danny • Oct 7, 2016 at 7:08 am
Online dating is really fun for me, I’ve been using houston.partyline.com a lot these days and I think it’s better than Tinder or OkCupid. They all have the same risk, so best security is our way of thinking. We have to be realistic while talking to some strangers.
Fernando Ardenghi • Sep 29, 2016 at 8:06 pm
The key to long-lasting romance, COMPATIBILITY is: STRICT PERSONALITY SIMILARITY and not “meet other people with similar interests”.
WorldWide, there are over 5,000 -five thousand- online dating sites
but no one is using the 16PF5 (or similar) to assess personality of its members!
but no one calculates similarity with a quantized pattern comparison method!
but no one can show Compatibility Distribution Curves to each and every of its members!
but no one is scientifically proven! No actual online dating site is “scientifically proven” because no one can prove its matching algorithm can match prospective partners who will have more stable and satisfying relationships -and very low divorce rates- than couples matched by chance, astrological destiny, personal preferences, searching on one’s own, or other technique as the control group in a peer reviewed Scientific Paper for the majority (over 90%) of its members.
but no one can show you a list of compatible persons like this:
( for a prospective male customer / sample but calculated with real values)
“Over 1,000,000 million women database, here is the list of the 12 more compatible with you. Notice that woman#1 is the most compatible with you but she could be more compatible with other men right now.
woman#01 is 95.58476277% compatible
woman#02 is 95.56224356% compatible
woman#03 is 95.52998273% compatible
woman#04 is 94.18354278% compatible
woman#05 is 93.00453871% compatible
woman#06 is 93.00007524% compatible
woman#07 is 92.99738452% compatible
woman#08 is 92.37945551% compatible
woman#09 is 92.29779173% compatible
woman#10 is 92.27114287% compatible
woman#11 is 92.19515551% compatible
woman#12 is 92.12249558% compatible”
The only way to revolutionize the Online Dating Industry is using the 16PF5 normative personality test, available in different languages to assess personality of members, or a proprietary test with exactly the same traits of the 16PF5 and expressing compatibility with eight decimals (needs a quantized pattern comparison method, part of pattern recognition by cross-correlation, to calculate similarity between prospective mates.)
High precision in matching algorithms is precisely the key to open the door and leave the infancy of compatibility testing.
Without offering the NORMATIVE 16PF5 (or similar test measuring exactly the 16 personality factors) for serious dating, it will be impossible to innovate and revolutionize the Online Dating Industry
The Online Dating Industry does not need a 10% improvement, a 50% improvement or a 100% improvement. It does need “a 100 times better improvement”
All other proposals are NOISE and perform as placebo.
Regards,
Fernando Ardenghi.
Buenos Aires, Argentina.
ardenghifer AT gmail DOT com